Saturday, 29 December 2012

Law Of Attraction - The Secret To Visualization

Secret Law of Attraction
Nearly everyone who is talking about the Law of Attraction agrees that visualization is an integral part of the creation process. We're told that in order to create what we want, in order to line up with its frequency, we have to visualize what it is that we want. The more clearly we can "see" our desires, the more easily they will come into our lives. Some books and courses go so far as to say that it's the act of visualizing which is actually creating. But what is visualization really, and how does it actually help us to create our reality? Is there a right way or a wrong way to do it?

Visualizing is NOT how we create. Visualization is a powerful tool that we use in order to line up with the energy of that which we've already created. It's a tool we use to receive the energy of our desires into the physical. So, while visualizing doesn't actually create, it is an important and integral part of the overall creation process.

We were all born with the ability to visualize. As children, we called it "playing pretend". Give a child a cardboard box and seconds later he'll be sitting in a spaceship on his way to Mars. He actually sees and experiences the trip and all the accompanying surroundings in his mind's eye. We get trained out of using this ability as we grow up. We never lose it, but we forget that we have this ability. We're told to grow up. We don't have time to daydream. Life gets in the way.

But what is visualizing really for? When we visualize, when we pretend that something has already happened, when we play out scenarios in our heads, we have the chance to root out and eliminate any conflicting vibrations. Remember that in order to line up with your manifestation, in order to receive it in the physical, you must be vibrating at your desire's frequency,giving off a conflicting vibration. Visualization helps you to ferret out these conflicting thoughts.

Let's say that you want a new car. So, you sit down on your couch and you visualize sitting in the car, on the plush leather seats. You can smell the leather, the carpet, the entire interior. You put your hands on the steering wheel. You smile. One of the back doors is opened and your children get in. They immediately begin to make a mess. One of them spills a soda. They're ruining your new car!

Whenever we visualize or daydream, our thoughts begin to take on a life of their own. They may well go down a negative path. You might get frustrated, angry, even imagine yourself taking revenge on people. Pay attention to when this happens. This is your brain translating those frequencies that aren't serving you. In the above example, for instance, the frustration and anger you experienced might point to a belief that you can't have a luxury car as long as you have kids. Perhaps the belief is even bigger: You can't have anything really nice or luxurious as long as you have kids. This isn't true of course, but as long as you have this belief, the contradictory frequency will keep you from getting that new car.

So, visualizing is basically like a dry run for life. It allows you to practice, to feel your way through situations and find out where you're still harboring negative frequencies.

Let's look at another example: You're a woman who wants to fall in love. So, you lie in bed every night, imagining the perfect man. Only, for some reason, he's not so perfect. Somewhere in your visualization of what real life would be like, he always does something to hurt you. You begin to see a pattern and realize that you always end the daydream with a fight. So, you begin to work on changing that visualization. You find ways to see him that do not result in a fight. You see him as kind and caring. He reacts differently than he did before. This is quite difficult and uncomfortable at first, but each night that you practice, it gets a little easier. After a while, you're able to visualize the relationship in a whole new way. You're able to see a whole different kind of man. You've just shifted your vibration. Keep practicing until you feel really good about your vision, until there's nothing left for you to "just have to put up with", until you're easily able to "see" yourself with the man you really want.

Visualization can be an incredibly powerful yet gentle tool to help you work through resistance. If used properly, this process can help you to ferret out negative vibrations and shift or eliminate them.

Here are a few more tips to help you get started: 

  • Make it a full body experience. What do you see? What do you hear? How does it smell? How does it feel? Get all of your senses involved. Really play pretend, the way you did as a child.
  • If you have trouble visualizing, get some multi-media help. Find pictures on the internet of the things you want, print them and paste them on a vision board if you like. Find songs that inspire you and help you get into the daydream. What song would you play while driving your new car down the freeway? But remember that just looking at pictures is not enough. You have to get into the fantasy, really play it out in your mind in order to see if you harbor any conflicting vibrations. 
  • Have fun with it. When you were a child, you played easily. Have that same attitude now. Don't force yourself to visualize on some strict schedule. Do it when it feels right, when you're ready to have some fun with it. The "work" is not in the visualizing, it's in paying attention to where that visualization takes you. 

Take time out of your day to play pretend. What would it feel like to have that new car, corner office, gorgeous spouse or recording contract? What would your life really be like if you received this one thing you've always wanted? Play until you can control the entire visualization, until you feel really good about everything you're experiencing, until it feels completely and totally. And when it becomes a game, when you can easily see yourself having what you desire with no conflicting thoughts, the things you want will come to you quickly and easily.

Copyright(c) 2010. Melody Fletcher. All Rights Reserved. Visit for articles and information on the Law of Attraction and sign up to receive the free e-book and audio "Deliberate Receiving - How the Law of Attraction really works".

Friday, 28 December 2012

7 Reasons People Don't Dream Big

Dream Big
An important ingredient for getting success in life, is to dare to dream big. When people see big dreams they set goals for themselves in life. Added to this if people continue to visualize having achieved those dreams, regularly, the dreams are transferred from conscious mind to the subconscious and then these dreams become flesh and all the forces get busy in realizing these dreams. Often people fail to realize their dreams or don't dare to dream big. There are certain possible reasons for people not being able to achieve their dreams or afraid of seeing any dreams.

1. Unclear Dreams

People often set unclear and incomplete goals for themselves. They don't define their objectives properly and that is the reason for them being unable to realize their dreams. People set incomplete objectives like someone wants to become an author but don't drill down to deep levels like what kind of writings, what genre, etc., etc.

2. Underestimating Yourself

People often underestimate themselves. They fear to believe or sometimes they don't know that they have endless abilities. They fail to understand that if they determine to achieve something and train their conscious mind and subconscious to achieve it, they would be able to do so. That's one of the primary reason why they fail to dream big for themselves.

3. People Don't Stick To One Goal

Some people don't stick to their goals. Today they want to be something and tomorrow they want to be something else. This seriously impacts the persons ability to achieve their dreams. As I said above that the dreams need to be transferred from conscious mind to the subconscious in order for the dreams to become flesh.

4. People Don't Possess Expertise / Skills

One reason that people don't dare to dream big is that they don't possess required expertise / skills in order to realize those dreams. It's really very simple to overcome this. There are lot of courses available out there in the market or online to acquire the required skills for any trade.

5. It's Hard To Achieve Goals

Achieving goals or realizing dreams is not easy. There would be lot or hardships, challenges and obstacles in the journey towards success. But this is not true for those who have prepared themselves to face any kind of hurdles or hardships in the way.

6. Fear of Failure

Sometimes people don't dream big because they are afraid of failure. What they fail to realize is that failures are not a reason for being ashamed, they are rather opportunities to improve and try again with all the energy. Failures don't take anything from you rather they add to your experience.

7. Selfishness

Some people fail to realize their dreams because their dreams are too selfish. Very important to understand here is that every thing in this universe is working towards mutual well being. So every action should be towards adding some value or providing some mutual benefit to others. Till the time the action targets to benefit only one person or one party it would not achieve any results at all. So if you want to realize your dreams those should be targeted to add value or provide mutual benefit e.g. if you sell something which does not provide the desired value to the buyer, nobody is going to buy that product.

If people take care of above points, I think it should not be very difficult for them to dream big and realize their dreams.

Thursday, 27 December 2012

Motivation - Believe That You Are Great and Powerful

This is best motivational video I have ever come across. This clearly shows how your belief that you are a strong, tough and powerful personality can make you a winner. The belief that you are here to win and you have the power to achieve anything that you desire in this universe, would make you the winner. This video is worth watching everyday in order to remind yourself that you are a winner and you have the power to win.  So bookmark this page and watch this video everyday. Visualize yourself as a winner and get motivation and inspiration from yourself to succeed in whatever you do in life.

Tuesday, 25 December 2012

Human Mind - Positive Thinking & The Law of Attraction

motivation, law of attraction, positive thinking
I Can What I Will To Be
What is the most important asset that humans possess? What is that makes humans special and most powerful on this earth? The answer, without any disagreements, is 'Mind'!! Its the most special asset which differentiates the human race from rest of the species alive on this earth. The possession of mind power enables humans to think, reason and gather knowledge thus making them the most powerful on earth and perhaps in the universe (till any life is discovered on any other planet in the universe!!)

It becomes important here to know how you utilize your brain power. Do you invest enough time and effort to develop this asset? Or do you allow it to sit idle and do nothing with it till the time it becomes totally useless? Its a well known fact that none of the human mind has unlimited potential. It entirely depends upon the individuals to what extent they unleash this potential.

Human Mind and Law of Attraction

In his book 'As a man thinketh', James Allen compares the human mind to a garden. He says: “A man’s mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, it must and will bring forth. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an abundance of useless weed-seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind.” In very simple words you will reap whatever seeds you sow. If you sow seeds of positive thinking, good thoughts and gratitude in your mind, you will always see good things happening in your life. However, if you sow seeds of negative thinking, feelings of anger, jealousy and hatred, the same will always reflect in your life. So, what is happening here? The Law of Attraction is in force. 

What is Law of Attraction?

Law of Attraction is universal and applies to each and every individual equally. It specifies that whatever you think about constantly gets attracted towards your life. This means that you attract good things in your life like health, wealth, fun, friends, etc. if you constantly think about and visualize them. But if you think about negative things like poverty, hatred, anger, jealous, etc., the same gets attracted in your life.

In essence, in order to benefit from the law of attraction you will have to continuously keep your mind occupied with positive thinking and good thoughts. You would need to avoid your mind from getting distracted and getting any negative thoughts. I know it’s easier said than done to keep negative thoughts off your mind, but with the help of following tips you can achieve positive thinking.

Take Control of Your Life

First step towards achieving positive thinking is to start believing that you are in control of your life. It’s you who will decide the course of your life. The power of controlling your destiny, the power to build your future lies inside yourself and not anywhere else. You will have to believe that is no force whatsoever which controls you and which does not want to see you enjoying the luxuries of this universe. You will have to believe that if you have something good in life, it’s because you want it to be there. Similarly, if you have bad things in your life it’s there because you knowingly or unknowingly want it to be there. Remember, Law of Attraction is at work. It brings you whatever you think of.

Watch Out Your Thoughts

In order to achieve positive results in life, you will have to be watchful of your thoughts. As per the law of attraction negative thoughts, in any form bring negative effect to your life. So you would always have to think of the things that you want instead of thinking about what you don’t want. For example if you want to be rich than you will have to think and visualize that you have lot of money. Don’t think that you do not want to be poor, just think you want to be rich. The bottom line is do not think at all about things you don’t want.

Power of Association

The people, places, books, etc. you associate with play a very important role. All these have potential to impact your thought process. So it’s always good to have company of good, positive and forward looking people. It’s always good to read good and positive books. It’s always good to read positive, inspirational and motivational sites and blogs. This will help you to gradually remove all the negative thoughts and shape up the life which you actually want.

All of the above will not happen in one night. There is no magic which can happen overnight and change your life next morning. All this will be achieved with your patience and persistence. The current negative mindset you may be in currently will take a sincere effort from your side to give way to positivity. You will have to constantly exercise the above mentioned steps in order to slowly remove the weeds of negative thoughts and make the garden of your mind beautiful with positive, inspired and motivated thoughts. Believe me you this is not very difficult to achieve if you commit to yourself that you will make positive use of your mind to its fullest. And once you have decorated your mind with the positive thinking you will see the course of your life changing towards prosperity, happiness, abundance and fun.

Saturday, 22 December 2012

An Inspirational Never Give Up Video

This video really shows how the Never Give Up attitude helps. Had the Zebra given up, it would have become lunch of the lion...This really inspires me. The lion resembles the hardships in life of a person trying to hunt him down like the zebra. If the person gives up, the difficulties would eat him up. But if the person doesn't give up and fights back, like the zebra does here in this video, the difficulties will step back just as the lion did.

Friday, 21 December 2012

Worry Is Your Big Enemy

I strongly feel that Worry is man's biggest enemy. Worry distracts people and does not let them focus on their goals. So when people start worrying about something going terribly wrong in future, or about their jobs, or about their loved ones, or anything else, they start creating images of such situations in their mind. When the conscious mind visualizes these negative images regularly, it turns them into belief. This belief is then transferred to sub-conscious and ultimately becomes the destiny. There are certainly ways to get rid of worrying. I have personally tried these tips and have found them very effective:

1. Keep Yourself in Present

When you worry you think of future. You start imagining things going wrong. Your worry becomes big if you relate it to some bad event in the past. So a good thing to do is to keep yourself busy in present day rather than thinking too much about the past or the future.

2. Tell Yourself That You Are Strong and Powerful

Whenever a worry or fear of something bad strikes your mind, tell yourself that you are strong and powerful enough to face any bad situation. Tell this repeatedly to yourself without thinking anything else. Practice this regularly and you will see that over a period of time you get rid of all your worries.

3. Ask Yourself - How Many of Your Worries Actually Turned Into A Reality?

A very interesting fact is that most of the things that you worry about in your life do not happen at all. So whenever there is a worry coming your way, just think what damage did a worry cause you last time? This way you would be challenging all your worries and force them to leave your mind and life for good.

4. Focus On the Solution, Don't Think About The Outcome

If you find yourself in a difficult situation, don't let any kind of fear or worry take over your mind. Just focus on the solution to make things better instead of thinking about the outcome. If you focus on finding a solution the final result would be in your favor  But if you keep thinking about the outcome, your mind would be occupied by worries of things going wrong in all probability. Focusing on finding a solution or working in small steps towards the solution would help you to come out of the mess and lead you to success.

Amazing Motivational Video

All I can say about this motivational video is... "Amazing" !!!

Thursday, 20 December 2012

See This To Motivate Yourself Before You Give Up

Watching this video really inspires and motivates me. Whenever you feel low in life just watch this video and I can tell you for sure that you will not feel the same again. There are some really heart touching facts in this video. Just watch for yourself and think again before you get disheartened due to hardships of life and decide to give up... 

Inspirational Video for Students and New Entrepreneurs

Reality of life. It happens! I remember when I was a kid, I thought of doing so many things and was so easy to do it. But as I grew up various reservations, inhibitions, fears stopped me from doing so many things which I really wanted to do. But when I said no to fear, things happened automatically.

Wednesday, 19 December 2012

Never Give Up!

A really inspirational video. Nick Vujicic does not have hands and legs but with his positive attitude and his resolve that he will never give up in life, he has enabled himself to do things which normal people can't do. This is really motivating.